Taking time to blog now as our school students are having Chapel
Service. Our school has Chapel Service every Tuesday for the
upper secondary students.
Saturday night was great. I went to my new church - Grace Methodist
Church for a 13 week course - It is called "The Alpha Course".
It teaches you about the bible scriptures as well as the different
aspects of life with regards to the bible.
On Thursday night will be Cell/Small Group. Yeah !!! those people
from that church are fun and loving.
Guess I have found new friends once again.
I should be heading for a mission trip to China next year June
with them the teach the kids there. I will be praying for strength
and call for this mission trip.
Well got tons of work so gonna start working on it.
© 2007 AngelineBubbles
Tuesday, 28 August 2007
Friday, 24 August 2007
What to do on a first date (if you're female)
What to do on a first date (if you're female)
This section may be affected by the fact that I am not a woman. And therefore I cannot offer you any tricks that have 'worked for me', obviously. Fortunately for all you double Xs out there* I have, by observation, consultation and fabrication constructed this handy guide.
*(Double X (XX) refers to the names of your sex chromosomes. You did know this, right? Of course you didn't.)
Before we can get to the 'how to bag a shag' section, we first need to establish exactly what sort of person you are. Are you good looking, or passable, or vaguely good looking to an optimist in a poor light, or... Not...
To work this out, I have decided to use a quiz. And to any males reading this section: Take note, make your own analysis of the women you meet using this table, too.
1 - Do you have any of the folowing features: (Add a point for each)
A way of moving that makes your coat swoosh around you.
A smouldering gaze
A sense of humour
A light, tinkly laugh
Long, flowing hair
Perfect breasts (It doesn't matter what size they are, so long as they objectively look good.)
A sexy walk
Deep, vibrant eyes
An easy-going personality
A beautiful smile
Lots of good looking friends (2 point if you have lots of good looking friends, as good looking friends give you a great indication that you, yourself, are good looking.)
2 - For the following features that you possess you must deduct a point.
Nasal hair that exceeds 1cm in length or that protrudes from your nostrils
A facial scar
A broken nose
Obviously missing teeth ( - 2 points for several missing teeth)
A wooden limb ( again, - 2 points if you have more than one fake limb)
A child (-2 points if it's with you. -3 points if it's holding something sticky. -4 points if it's wailing AND holding something sticky AND is using its sticky thing to paint the walls.)
A missing eye (Although if you have a tasteful glass eye then only deduct half a point)
A really ugly best friend that follows you everywhere.
A propensity for being likened to a horse (If people often mention your horsiness then deduct 5 points)
A personality that is one of the following: Possessive, disruptive, manic, depressive, manic depressive, schizophrenic
Piercings that are not in your head. (And -1 if you have more than 8 small facial piercing (And that's me being generous since I know that some of you seem to think that having metal hanging out of your face is "dead stylish". I'd deduct 2 points for this alone, but some males inexplicably find this attractive also. Remember, though, that all of the ones like me (i.e the Great ones) will find it irksome.)
And for each of the following places that you have body hair then deduct a point: upper lip, in between your eyebrows, knuckles, elbows, the back of your knees, on your jaw, anywhere in your mouth and in your ears.
Now, add up those points.
Do you have +3 or more? Then WELL DONE, you're good looking. See the first section below for advice on how to behave on dates.
Did you score between +2 and -2? Then you are not-bad looking, nor completely unattractive . Give the good looking section and the following section a read and take advice as you see fit.
Less than -2? Oh dear. You're going to need a bit of help with getting chaps to find you attractive. See the section for people. See the section for the not-so good looking for that essential advice on all things romantic.
Less than -8? Don't you even think about going out on any dates. Stay indoors. Don't yet despair, however, see the "So you look like a horse?" guide below, and soon you may well be in the -2 to -8 range. Hurrah!
Less than -10? Stay indoors.
Less than -12? Stay undergound.
Less than -16? How did you manage to get a score this low? You must be trying to look COMPLETELY gruesome to all around you. If not, then its just as well you read this book. Wear it over your head so no one sees you, run back to your cave, and hide under a rock until death mercifully takes you. See the "So you look like you should live in a pond?" section while you wait for the grim reaper.
Right, now that you have been handily and insultingly classified, on with the first-date guides!
How to Bag a Shag:
If you are good looking then do the following. (This works 24/7, not just on dates):
Laugh charmingly.
Look pretty.
That's it. Everyone will do whatever you want, all of the time. (If people don't do whatever you want all of the time then you may have added up your points incorrectly.)
If you are... not so good looking:
O.K, you are going to need to use all of your natural assets to pull this one off, but you can do it. You go girl...
Make him feel important. Ask him questions about his life, job, family, studies- whatever. Men like to feel like they're the centre of the universe, so exploit this to the maximum extent that you possibly can.
Is that not working for you? How about joining in with his enjoyment of 'manly' activities. Sports, for instance. Discus football or some crap like that.
Still no luck? Well, do the pair of you share an interest? If so, splendid. Discuss the myriad intricacies of whatever your common interest is, whether a hobby, activity or... you know, whatever it is.
And if all else fails?
Offer to felate him.
Too extreme? Then the subtle approach is more likely to be your style...
Simply allude to the fact that the taste of semen and/or testicle is not entirely unappealing to you.
Feeling stylish and confident? (N.B if you are always confident then you may be 'good looking' in which case see the preceding section. If not, then read on...) Lick your lips- Then say "Do you know what I like the taste of?" He will shake his head, or shrug. Then you should toss your hair, meet his eyes, let a flicker of a smile play across your lips, and say, frankly and assuredly: "Cock." Do all of that (And do it properly) and you're sure to knock him dead with your radiating sexuality. UNLESS he has read this book, in which case he'll laugh at you (and probably distribute a 4PPS (See pimping section).)
Desperate?
Then do the thing from 'Basic Instinct'. (If you don't know what this is then don't bother finding out. Trust me, if you don't already know then you're not the sort to try it.)
And remember, most women fall under this category. That's why the good looking ones can get away with just sitting there, blinking, and watch as men flock to them like flies round a delicious, oozing cake. But you can get one of their rejects if you try really hard.
So you look like a horse?
Good luck, horse-face.
What were you expecting? Advice?... OK: Wear a bag over your head, horse-face.
So you look like you should live in a pond?
Then go and live in one.
© 2007 AngelineBubbles
This section may be affected by the fact that I am not a woman. And therefore I cannot offer you any tricks that have 'worked for me', obviously. Fortunately for all you double Xs out there* I have, by observation, consultation and fabrication constructed this handy guide.
*(Double X (XX) refers to the names of your sex chromosomes. You did know this, right? Of course you didn't.)
Before we can get to the 'how to bag a shag' section, we first need to establish exactly what sort of person you are. Are you good looking, or passable, or vaguely good looking to an optimist in a poor light, or... Not...
To work this out, I have decided to use a quiz. And to any males reading this section: Take note, make your own analysis of the women you meet using this table, too.
1 - Do you have any of the folowing features: (Add a point for each)
A way of moving that makes your coat swoosh around you.
A smouldering gaze
A sense of humour
A light, tinkly laugh
Long, flowing hair
Perfect breasts (It doesn't matter what size they are, so long as they objectively look good.)
A sexy walk
Deep, vibrant eyes
An easy-going personality
A beautiful smile
Lots of good looking friends (2 point if you have lots of good looking friends, as good looking friends give you a great indication that you, yourself, are good looking.)
2 - For the following features that you possess you must deduct a point.
Nasal hair that exceeds 1cm in length or that protrudes from your nostrils
A facial scar
A broken nose
Obviously missing teeth ( - 2 points for several missing teeth)
A wooden limb ( again, - 2 points if you have more than one fake limb)
A child (-2 points if it's with you. -3 points if it's holding something sticky. -4 points if it's wailing AND holding something sticky AND is using its sticky thing to paint the walls.)
A missing eye (Although if you have a tasteful glass eye then only deduct half a point)
A really ugly best friend that follows you everywhere.
A propensity for being likened to a horse (If people often mention your horsiness then deduct 5 points)
A personality that is one of the following: Possessive, disruptive, manic, depressive, manic depressive, schizophrenic
Piercings that are not in your head. (And -1 if you have more than 8 small facial piercing (And that's me being generous since I know that some of you seem to think that having metal hanging out of your face is "dead stylish". I'd deduct 2 points for this alone, but some males inexplicably find this attractive also. Remember, though, that all of the ones like me (i.e the Great ones) will find it irksome.)
And for each of the following places that you have body hair then deduct a point: upper lip, in between your eyebrows, knuckles, elbows, the back of your knees, on your jaw, anywhere in your mouth and in your ears.
Now, add up those points.
Do you have +3 or more? Then WELL DONE, you're good looking. See the first section below for advice on how to behave on dates.
Did you score between +2 and -2? Then you are not-bad looking, nor completely unattractive . Give the good looking section and the following section a read and take advice as you see fit.
Less than -2? Oh dear. You're going to need a bit of help with getting chaps to find you attractive. See the section for people. See the section for the not-so good looking for that essential advice on all things romantic.
Less than -8? Don't you even think about going out on any dates. Stay indoors. Don't yet despair, however, see the "So you look like a horse?" guide below, and soon you may well be in the -2 to -8 range. Hurrah!
Less than -10? Stay indoors.
Less than -12? Stay undergound.
Less than -16? How did you manage to get a score this low? You must be trying to look COMPLETELY gruesome to all around you. If not, then its just as well you read this book. Wear it over your head so no one sees you, run back to your cave, and hide under a rock until death mercifully takes you. See the "So you look like you should live in a pond?" section while you wait for the grim reaper.
Right, now that you have been handily and insultingly classified, on with the first-date guides!
How to Bag a Shag:
If you are good looking then do the following. (This works 24/7, not just on dates):
Laugh charmingly.
Look pretty.
That's it. Everyone will do whatever you want, all of the time. (If people don't do whatever you want all of the time then you may have added up your points incorrectly.)
If you are... not so good looking:
O.K, you are going to need to use all of your natural assets to pull this one off, but you can do it. You go girl...
Make him feel important. Ask him questions about his life, job, family, studies- whatever. Men like to feel like they're the centre of the universe, so exploit this to the maximum extent that you possibly can.
Is that not working for you? How about joining in with his enjoyment of 'manly' activities. Sports, for instance. Discus football or some crap like that.
Still no luck? Well, do the pair of you share an interest? If so, splendid. Discuss the myriad intricacies of whatever your common interest is, whether a hobby, activity or... you know, whatever it is.
And if all else fails?
Offer to felate him.
Too extreme? Then the subtle approach is more likely to be your style...
Simply allude to the fact that the taste of semen and/or testicle is not entirely unappealing to you.
Feeling stylish and confident? (N.B if you are always confident then you may be 'good looking' in which case see the preceding section. If not, then read on...) Lick your lips- Then say "Do you know what I like the taste of?" He will shake his head, or shrug. Then you should toss your hair, meet his eyes, let a flicker of a smile play across your lips, and say, frankly and assuredly: "Cock." Do all of that (And do it properly) and you're sure to knock him dead with your radiating sexuality. UNLESS he has read this book, in which case he'll laugh at you (and probably distribute a 4PPS (See pimping section).)
Desperate?
Then do the thing from 'Basic Instinct'. (If you don't know what this is then don't bother finding out. Trust me, if you don't already know then you're not the sort to try it.)
And remember, most women fall under this category. That's why the good looking ones can get away with just sitting there, blinking, and watch as men flock to them like flies round a delicious, oozing cake. But you can get one of their rejects if you try really hard.
So you look like a horse?
Good luck, horse-face.
What were you expecting? Advice?... OK: Wear a bag over your head, horse-face.
So you look like you should live in a pond?
Then go and live in one.
© 2007 AngelineBubbles
Fridays !!!
Having free time now after school morning assembly so I took
this time to blog something interesting about Rules And Regulation
for myself. Well a little "Boliao" I must say.
Rules And Regulation For Angel ...
1 - Smile Always
2 - Stop Being To Jumpy
3 - Stop Talking Too Fast Angel, You Are Not Catching A Train
4 - Try Not To Waste Money On Unnecessary Things Such As Clothes
Or Shoes
5 - Be Stable When Talking. Do Not Mumble, Speak Clearly
This Is Just My View About First Dates With Someone ...
NOT My Regulations
During The First Date :-
1 - Do Not Talk On Your Mobile In front Of Your Date As Though
Your Date Is Invisible
2 - Do Not Talk About Your Friends To Your Dates During The
First Date (They Barely Know You Well Enough)
3 - Share Your Views Professionally
4 - Smiles As It Always Reduce Pressure On Both Parties
5 - Speak Slowly And Clearly
6 - Act Professionally
Melvin Goh has found something interesting.
Courtesy From Melvin Goh
For WOMEN: How Do You Catch HIS Attention?
Though it was an unusual question, I understood it immediately: “How does a woman appropriately, biblically, humbly, and submissively go about ‘cracking the twigs and stirring the leaves?’ A friend of mine said that it seems like girls end up ‘breaking logs and throwing leaves’ too vigorously at times.”
This woman was not referring to any hiking or forestry activity. She had heard a quote read at a Christian singles conference and she, like several other women, had written me to ask how to apply it. First, some background. The quote read at this conference was from the outstanding book, Doing Things Right in Matters of the Heart, by John Ensor:
Brothers, it falls to us to be the initial risk takers in matters of the heart. Headship means being the one to go ahead and ask. It is ours as men to suffer the embarrassment of rejection if need be. It is our role to initiate. Get to it right merrily. We are the hunters. They are the quarry. It is for men to strike out into the forest and look. It is for women to crack the twigs and stir the leaves so we know where to find them.
Ensor wrote this as a humorous touch in an otherwise direct chapter about biblical masculinity. He wasn’t trying to explain anything to women in this chapter???he was addressing the guys and their responsibility to pursue and initiate relationships. Though I searched the rest of the book, there wasn’t any further explanation about this intriguing “twig-cracking” comment.
So I decided to take a poll and directly ask men for some illustrations of attractive “twig-cracking and leaf-rustling” behaviors. What I discovered is that the qualities these men were describing were quite similar to the qualities that the Bible commends for godly wives (see Proverbs 31). That should be no surprise! Here is a quick summary:
1. Smile While You Stir: A cheerful woman is hugely attractive. A self-absorbed, complaining, and moody woman is hard to lead and please. Ask any married man to describe what attracted him to his wife, and among his top qualities will be her smile???hands down. But this is not superficial cheer. It must really be grounded in the next quality. . . .
2. Trust God As You Wait: No man will ever do everything right???not as a boyfriend and not as a husband. The woman who does not expect perfection from fellow human beings, but is learning to put all her trust and faith in her Savior, is much more gracious and patient as “the quarry.” Anxiety, restlessness, and jealous possessiveness will spook the hunters.
“I think that women most effectively ‘cracks twigs’ by seeking to glorify our Savior with their lives,” writes a single guy named Kyle. “This is what draws my attention to a woman. The humility that is expressed in a woman who truly fears our God is what is most attractive. However, please understand that I am not advocating that all women become nuns. All that I am saying is that when a girl is not trusting God with her future, this is most usually seen in her interaction with the opposite sex.”
Trusting God for one gift (marriage) is hard if you don’t appreciate the best gift you will ever receive, though. Which is why the third quality is essential for both trust and joy. . . .
3. Grow in Gratitude for the Gospel: Marriage is a tremendous gift. But it pales by far in comparison to the gift of salvation. It is also a gift that is only for this lifetime. It is an important gift, and one that desperately needs to be esteemed more highly in our generation, but it is only a temporary gift. So we need to cultivate our gratitude for the gospel???that outrageous act of mercy in which Christ took the punishment for our sins on the cross and, in the divine exchange, offered us His righteousness so that we could be reconciled to a holy and just God. Gratitude for the gospel should permeate our lives. When we really grasp that we’re walking objects of mercy, it colors everything we say and do. This is how we can “rejoice with those who rejoice” when we have yet to receive marriage???for we have already received something far more miraculous that we desperately needed.
“SMILE! Your joy and satisfaction is not found in another person but resides only in the Lord,” writes a man named Tim. “Trust me when I say that the guy loves to see a woman smile. This does not mean you should wink at him or laugh at all his corny jokes, but let him see your joy in the Lord.”
4. Pray Before, During, and After You Crack Twigs: Proverbs 30:19 says that the way of a man with a maiden is amazing and wonderful, something too profound to be easily understood. So if Scripture says this is a mystery, why should we expect that some formula or method in the latest singles self-help book is going to solve it? When you think about it, it is amazing that two sinners can be drawn to each other (at the same time!) and then make a pledge to stick it out for the rest of their lives. Frankly, the longer I observe the mystery of marriage, the more I am in awe of God’s sovereign ability to bring two people together. So pray for the gift of marriage for yourself and your friends, pray for the single men you know to find a wife, pray for your pastors and your church to help single adults get married, pray that God will conform you as a fruitful helpmate to your future husband, pray for a humble man who listens for God’s voice???and then pray that God speaks your name to him.
5. Encourage the Hunters: It’s hard to be a godly man in a culture that promotes pornography, violence, and self-centered passivity in men. Give some props to the brothers who endeavor to flee sin and temptation to follow Christ. Even without that outside influence, men have to work hard to trust God and risk rejection when they initiate relationships. So be gracious when you’re approached???this man may not be the hunter you wanted to attract, but don’t shoot him down so hard that he flees the woods. Even if you say no, be kind about it and make it easy for him to keep on hunting. In fact, encourage all the nearby hunters. If you see them selflessly serving others, speak up and thank them. If you see them stepping up to lead a group activity (akin to herding cats at times), voice your appreciation. If they serve you by getting rid of some pesky varmints in your neck of the woods, make sure they hear your “well done.” Your general reputation as an encouraging woman may well draw a hunter from the far side of the forest.
6. Refresh the Hunters: Be a hospitable woman. Cultivate your domestic diva and make your “nest” a place that hunters want to be. You don’t have to have a huge house or even your own house. Just make the place you reside a clean, comfortable and attractive place and then invite others in.
“Create group fellowship opportunities,” says a single man named Ricky. “You can both practice hospitality and get to know people better by inviting people over for a meal, or ice cream, or to watch a movie. Don’t feel bad about including ‘certain people’ when appropriate. And build the friendship???don’t throw yourself at him, but it’s okay to ask him good questions and follow up on previous conversations. Let him know that having a conversation with him isn’t horrible and laborious and you wouldn’t mind having another one.”
7. Be in Proximity to the Hunters But Don’t Scare Them Off: This one requires some finesse???you need your friends and family to help you evaluate how you are doing. Your accountability partners can help you discern your motives and behavior, and will keep you from swinging too far in either extreme???avoiding both aggressive pursuit and fearful hiding. But as a general rule, rustling and crackling are subtle activities. Thus it’s helpful to be within hearing range of the hunters.
“It’s okay to be noticed and approached. It doesn’t mean that you’re flirtatious; it might just mean that your biblical femininity is showing,” writes a single man named Jon. “Live for God and don’t be shocked if a guy or two notices you. That said, there are ladies who are overly friendly and try to make their interest known. Some guys eat up the attention and jump right in, other guys find this extremely unappealing. These ladies aren’t rustling leaves but rather letting out the loudest deer calls they can. Their dress, appearance or social prowess is what primarily brings attention, not their godly lives and biblical femininity. For these ladies, I would encourage them to also not be afraid and to trust God that the right guy will notice them. You may find that more men of godly character come out from the bushes when you become less intimidating.”
© 2007 AngelineBubbles
this time to blog something interesting about Rules And Regulation
for myself. Well a little "Boliao" I must say.
Rules And Regulation For Angel ...
1 - Smile Always
2 - Stop Being To Jumpy
3 - Stop Talking Too Fast Angel, You Are Not Catching A Train
4 - Try Not To Waste Money On Unnecessary Things Such As Clothes
Or Shoes
5 - Be Stable When Talking. Do Not Mumble, Speak Clearly
This Is Just My View About First Dates With Someone ...
NOT My Regulations
During The First Date :-
1 - Do Not Talk On Your Mobile In front Of Your Date As Though
Your Date Is Invisible
2 - Do Not Talk About Your Friends To Your Dates During The
First Date (They Barely Know You Well Enough)
3 - Share Your Views Professionally
4 - Smiles As It Always Reduce Pressure On Both Parties
5 - Speak Slowly And Clearly
6 - Act Professionally
Melvin Goh has found something interesting.
Courtesy From Melvin Goh
For WOMEN: How Do You Catch HIS Attention?
Though it was an unusual question, I understood it immediately: “How does a woman appropriately, biblically, humbly, and submissively go about ‘cracking the twigs and stirring the leaves?’ A friend of mine said that it seems like girls end up ‘breaking logs and throwing leaves’ too vigorously at times.”
This woman was not referring to any hiking or forestry activity. She had heard a quote read at a Christian singles conference and she, like several other women, had written me to ask how to apply it. First, some background. The quote read at this conference was from the outstanding book, Doing Things Right in Matters of the Heart, by John Ensor:
Brothers, it falls to us to be the initial risk takers in matters of the heart. Headship means being the one to go ahead and ask. It is ours as men to suffer the embarrassment of rejection if need be. It is our role to initiate. Get to it right merrily. We are the hunters. They are the quarry. It is for men to strike out into the forest and look. It is for women to crack the twigs and stir the leaves so we know where to find them.
Ensor wrote this as a humorous touch in an otherwise direct chapter about biblical masculinity. He wasn’t trying to explain anything to women in this chapter???he was addressing the guys and their responsibility to pursue and initiate relationships. Though I searched the rest of the book, there wasn’t any further explanation about this intriguing “twig-cracking” comment.
So I decided to take a poll and directly ask men for some illustrations of attractive “twig-cracking and leaf-rustling” behaviors. What I discovered is that the qualities these men were describing were quite similar to the qualities that the Bible commends for godly wives (see Proverbs 31). That should be no surprise! Here is a quick summary:
1. Smile While You Stir: A cheerful woman is hugely attractive. A self-absorbed, complaining, and moody woman is hard to lead and please. Ask any married man to describe what attracted him to his wife, and among his top qualities will be her smile???hands down. But this is not superficial cheer. It must really be grounded in the next quality. . . .
2. Trust God As You Wait: No man will ever do everything right???not as a boyfriend and not as a husband. The woman who does not expect perfection from fellow human beings, but is learning to put all her trust and faith in her Savior, is much more gracious and patient as “the quarry.” Anxiety, restlessness, and jealous possessiveness will spook the hunters.
“I think that women most effectively ‘cracks twigs’ by seeking to glorify our Savior with their lives,” writes a single guy named Kyle. “This is what draws my attention to a woman. The humility that is expressed in a woman who truly fears our God is what is most attractive. However, please understand that I am not advocating that all women become nuns. All that I am saying is that when a girl is not trusting God with her future, this is most usually seen in her interaction with the opposite sex.”
Trusting God for one gift (marriage) is hard if you don’t appreciate the best gift you will ever receive, though. Which is why the third quality is essential for both trust and joy. . . .
3. Grow in Gratitude for the Gospel: Marriage is a tremendous gift. But it pales by far in comparison to the gift of salvation. It is also a gift that is only for this lifetime. It is an important gift, and one that desperately needs to be esteemed more highly in our generation, but it is only a temporary gift. So we need to cultivate our gratitude for the gospel???that outrageous act of mercy in which Christ took the punishment for our sins on the cross and, in the divine exchange, offered us His righteousness so that we could be reconciled to a holy and just God. Gratitude for the gospel should permeate our lives. When we really grasp that we’re walking objects of mercy, it colors everything we say and do. This is how we can “rejoice with those who rejoice” when we have yet to receive marriage???for we have already received something far more miraculous that we desperately needed.
“SMILE! Your joy and satisfaction is not found in another person but resides only in the Lord,” writes a man named Tim. “Trust me when I say that the guy loves to see a woman smile. This does not mean you should wink at him or laugh at all his corny jokes, but let him see your joy in the Lord.”
4. Pray Before, During, and After You Crack Twigs: Proverbs 30:19 says that the way of a man with a maiden is amazing and wonderful, something too profound to be easily understood. So if Scripture says this is a mystery, why should we expect that some formula or method in the latest singles self-help book is going to solve it? When you think about it, it is amazing that two sinners can be drawn to each other (at the same time!) and then make a pledge to stick it out for the rest of their lives. Frankly, the longer I observe the mystery of marriage, the more I am in awe of God’s sovereign ability to bring two people together. So pray for the gift of marriage for yourself and your friends, pray for the single men you know to find a wife, pray for your pastors and your church to help single adults get married, pray that God will conform you as a fruitful helpmate to your future husband, pray for a humble man who listens for God’s voice???and then pray that God speaks your name to him.
5. Encourage the Hunters: It’s hard to be a godly man in a culture that promotes pornography, violence, and self-centered passivity in men. Give some props to the brothers who endeavor to flee sin and temptation to follow Christ. Even without that outside influence, men have to work hard to trust God and risk rejection when they initiate relationships. So be gracious when you’re approached???this man may not be the hunter you wanted to attract, but don’t shoot him down so hard that he flees the woods. Even if you say no, be kind about it and make it easy for him to keep on hunting. In fact, encourage all the nearby hunters. If you see them selflessly serving others, speak up and thank them. If you see them stepping up to lead a group activity (akin to herding cats at times), voice your appreciation. If they serve you by getting rid of some pesky varmints in your neck of the woods, make sure they hear your “well done.” Your general reputation as an encouraging woman may well draw a hunter from the far side of the forest.
6. Refresh the Hunters: Be a hospitable woman. Cultivate your domestic diva and make your “nest” a place that hunters want to be. You don’t have to have a huge house or even your own house. Just make the place you reside a clean, comfortable and attractive place and then invite others in.
“Create group fellowship opportunities,” says a single man named Ricky. “You can both practice hospitality and get to know people better by inviting people over for a meal, or ice cream, or to watch a movie. Don’t feel bad about including ‘certain people’ when appropriate. And build the friendship???don’t throw yourself at him, but it’s okay to ask him good questions and follow up on previous conversations. Let him know that having a conversation with him isn’t horrible and laborious and you wouldn’t mind having another one.”
7. Be in Proximity to the Hunters But Don’t Scare Them Off: This one requires some finesse???you need your friends and family to help you evaluate how you are doing. Your accountability partners can help you discern your motives and behavior, and will keep you from swinging too far in either extreme???avoiding both aggressive pursuit and fearful hiding. But as a general rule, rustling and crackling are subtle activities. Thus it’s helpful to be within hearing range of the hunters.
“It’s okay to be noticed and approached. It doesn’t mean that you’re flirtatious; it might just mean that your biblical femininity is showing,” writes a single man named Jon. “Live for God and don’t be shocked if a guy or two notices you. That said, there are ladies who are overly friendly and try to make their interest known. Some guys eat up the attention and jump right in, other guys find this extremely unappealing. These ladies aren’t rustling leaves but rather letting out the loudest deer calls they can. Their dress, appearance or social prowess is what primarily brings attention, not their godly lives and biblical femininity. For these ladies, I would encourage them to also not be afraid and to trust God that the right guy will notice them. You may find that more men of godly character come out from the bushes when you become less intimidating.”
© 2007 AngelineBubbles
Tuesday, 21 August 2007
The Good Old Days
Work so far has been fine.
The major load for my work is almost over and the 1 week school
holiday would be starting from 1 September 2007.
How I wish it is Christmas Time !!!!
Do I see Applause !!!
I met up with Jessie last night at Bishan Cartel and we share lots
of things. We shared from issues from the history of Singapore to
what are the good and the bad.
Miss Australia ??? Definitely!!! Those were our good old days at
University in Perth Western Australia.
I need to widen my scope of things. Gosh.. Without that I could
not achieve alot of things.
Should I take the challenge for the SATs test? I really don know.
There are few teachers whom I am close too advise me to take up
the challenge and see where I stand. It is only a plus point and
not a minus point as there is no harm in sitting the SATs paper.
Well even my closer friends such as Melinda, Cherisse and Jessie
all advise me to "just take the test as there is no harm mah"
Well I will have to work it out soon.
As for my job, I don know where I would like to head to.
I really don feel like resigning but there are certain issues
that I would need to resign at some point of time. Currently
looking for another job permanently and hopefully fingers cross
a good job will come my way.
Just trust in God and all good things will come.
© 2007 AngelineBubbles
The major load for my work is almost over and the 1 week school
holiday would be starting from 1 September 2007.
How I wish it is Christmas Time !!!!
Do I see Applause !!!
I met up with Jessie last night at Bishan Cartel and we share lots
of things. We shared from issues from the history of Singapore to
what are the good and the bad.
Miss Australia ??? Definitely!!! Those were our good old days at
University in Perth Western Australia.
I need to widen my scope of things. Gosh.. Without that I could
not achieve alot of things.
Should I take the challenge for the SATs test? I really don know.
There are few teachers whom I am close too advise me to take up
the challenge and see where I stand. It is only a plus point and
not a minus point as there is no harm in sitting the SATs paper.
Well even my closer friends such as Melinda, Cherisse and Jessie
all advise me to "just take the test as there is no harm mah"
Well I will have to work it out soon.
As for my job, I don know where I would like to head to.
I really don feel like resigning but there are certain issues
that I would need to resign at some point of time. Currently
looking for another job permanently and hopefully fingers cross
a good job will come my way.
Just trust in God and all good things will come.
© 2007 AngelineBubbles
Sunday, 19 August 2007
Fireworks.. So Nice !!!
Tonight our Singapore Prime Minister will be delivering his speech for
National Day Rally so my family will be at home watching the broadcast.
Here are some pictures taken yesterday at the Fireworks
Thanks to Melinda for taking the pictures.
Pictures of us waiting for the fireworks ...
The Fireworks.....
© 2007 AngelineBubbles
National Day Rally so my family will be at home watching the broadcast.
Here are some pictures taken yesterday at the Fireworks
Thanks to Melinda for taking the pictures.
Pictures of us waiting for the fireworks ...
The Fireworks.....
© 2007 AngelineBubbles
Thursday, 16 August 2007
Fell Down
One could say that I was in a bad shape yesterday cause I fell
down in school. Not just fell down but ROLL down the stairs.
I hurt my head, leg and backside.
Lucky it was only scratches and bruises on my leg.
DSA issues will be over soon. Yeah. I guess over the 1 week September
school holiday is going to be a time for me to clear my work.
The weekends is here and yes... OUTINGS !!!
Till Then
© 2007 AngelineBubbles
down in school. Not just fell down but ROLL down the stairs.
I hurt my head, leg and backside.
Lucky it was only scratches and bruises on my leg.
DSA issues will be over soon. Yeah. I guess over the 1 week September
school holiday is going to be a time for me to clear my work.
The weekends is here and yes... OUTINGS !!!
Till Then
© 2007 AngelineBubbles
Sunday, 12 August 2007
Happy Belated Birthday Singapore
I have a fruitful short break to our neighbouring country, Malacca
over National Day.
August had been a busy month for me. From involving in activities
such as Direct School Admission, Fairfield Commendation Service And
National Day cum Racial Harmony Day Celebration.
What I have gain out of my busy schedules from the above mentioned
events for the past 2 months was I got to interact more with the
students, whereby I got to know them better other then just a short
interaction with them in class or during CCAs.
Here are some pictures taken at Malacca
Me And My Little Niece at Changi Airport
© 2007 AngelineBubbles
over National Day.
August had been a busy month for me. From involving in activities
such as Direct School Admission, Fairfield Commendation Service And
National Day cum Racial Harmony Day Celebration.
What I have gain out of my busy schedules from the above mentioned
events for the past 2 months was I got to interact more with the
students, whereby I got to know them better other then just a short
interaction with them in class or during CCAs.
Here are some pictures taken at Malacca
Me And My Little Niece at Changi Airport
© 2007 AngelineBubbles
Monday, 6 August 2007
OUR FAIRFIELD THEME FOR THE YEAR -- BROADWAY
Here are Some Pictures taken during our Fairfield Dinner...
OUR FAIRFIELD THEME FOR THE YEAR -- BROADWAY ...
Me And The Other Teachers That I Am Close Too ...
Welcome To The Fairfield Family ...
I am amazed that how our school hall can be transform into
dinner setting in an air-con environment.
© 2007 AngelineBubbles
OUR FAIRFIELD THEME FOR THE YEAR -- BROADWAY ...
Me And The Other Teachers That I Am Close Too ...
Welcome To The Fairfield Family ...
I am amazed that how our school hall can be transform into
dinner setting in an air-con environment.
© 2007 AngelineBubbles
No Mood !!!
I have not gotten into the mood of working since I step into my
work place. Sigh !!!
At last the long the awaited Fairfield Methodist Secondary School
Commendation Service which has kept me busy over the past 2 months
was over with a huge success and thanksgiving.
The commendation service was held last week 3 Aug.
My office place need some tidying, will get it done later.
More pictures taken during our school commendation will be
posted tonite. Till then !!!
© 2007 AngelineBubbles
work place. Sigh !!!
At last the long the awaited Fairfield Methodist Secondary School
Commendation Service which has kept me busy over the past 2 months
was over with a huge success and thanksgiving.
The commendation service was held last week 3 Aug.
My office place need some tidying, will get it done later.
More pictures taken during our school commendation will be
posted tonite. Till then !!!
© 2007 AngelineBubbles
Friday, 3 August 2007
Happy Birthday Fairfield....
Today is our school, Fairfield Methodist Secondary School
Founders Day AKA Birthday.
We are known as the black and while beauty girls.
Taken at the staff room before heading to the hall
to mark attendance. ;-)
I had a great time today.
The Act Cute Teachers ...
The Serious Teachers
Is Miss Eunice Lee Working ???
Oh My Science Paper Not Set Yet How ??
Me And Eunice Da Jie ...
Me And Minghui ...
© 2007 AngelineBubbles
Founders Day AKA Birthday.
We are known as the black and while beauty girls.
Taken at the staff room before heading to the hall
to mark attendance. ;-)
I had a great time today.
The Act Cute Teachers ...
The Serious Teachers
Is Miss Eunice Lee Working ???
Oh My Science Paper Not Set Yet How ??
Me And Eunice Da Jie ...
Me And Minghui ...
© 2007 AngelineBubbles
Wednesday, 1 August 2007
At School Stressing Up
Fairfield Methodist 2007 Commendation Service is just round the corner.
It will be held on the 3 Aug 2007 with 3 service.
The Schedule for 3 Aug 2007 goes like this :-
7.30am - 10.30am - Lower Secondary Service
10.45am - 1.00pm - Upper Secondary Service
7.30pm - 10.30pm - Service For The Graduate Students And Parents
* All Service Will Have Light Refreshments Serve
The Schedule for 4 Aug 2007 goes like this
5.30pm - 6.30pm - Pre Interaction among Teachers from the
Primary School and Secondary School
6.30pm - 7.00pm - Cocktail Reception
7.00pm - Seated And Dinner
Gosh.. It seem like a Chinese Wedding Dinner Itinerary
How Angel is going to rest.
Haha. But I am looking forward for the dinner cos it will be my first
time attending this function as part of the school community.
© 2007 AngelineBubbles
It will be held on the 3 Aug 2007 with 3 service.
The Schedule for 3 Aug 2007 goes like this :-
7.30am - 10.30am - Lower Secondary Service
10.45am - 1.00pm - Upper Secondary Service
7.30pm - 10.30pm - Service For The Graduate Students And Parents
* All Service Will Have Light Refreshments Serve
The Schedule for 4 Aug 2007 goes like this
5.30pm - 6.30pm - Pre Interaction among Teachers from the
Primary School and Secondary School
6.30pm - 7.00pm - Cocktail Reception
7.00pm - Seated And Dinner
Gosh.. It seem like a Chinese Wedding Dinner Itinerary
How Angel is going to rest.
Haha. But I am looking forward for the dinner cos it will be my first
time attending this function as part of the school community.
© 2007 AngelineBubbles
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